Alternative Loving

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A practice dedicated to celebrating sexual and relational diversity.

A practice dedicated to celebrating sexual and relational diversity.A practice dedicated to celebrating sexual and relational diversity.A practice dedicated to celebrating sexual and relational diversity.

Welcome to Alternative Loving

What Sessions Feel Like:

Some days are slow and tender; other days we map patterns, practice new language for asking for what you want, or plan next steps. You bring your lived experience. I bring clinical knowledge and presence.


Affirming

Consent-centered

Trauma-informed

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Offerings at Alternative Loving

Identity Exploration

Identity Exploration

Identity Exploration

The rules and roles of our society impose norms that don't reflect most of our authentic wants and needs. Many of us carry deep shame & attachment injury simply for existing in a world not built with us in mind. That informs how much we allow, or commonly don’t allow, ourselves to really know ourselves. I am passionate about supporting clients in cultivating deeper insight into their self. With that information, one can be empowered to live more authentically and love both themselves and others more fully. I work with clients of all gender identities and expressions, sexualities, and relationship structures, though I bring a special zeal to those who are LGBTQIA+ and who live and love alternatively.

Sex & Sexuality

Identity Exploration

Identity Exploration

As a Board-Certified Sexologist that holds a certification in sex therapy, I thoroughly enjoy working with individuals and partnerships on goals related to sex and sexuality. My particular areas of interest include supporting clients in: liberating themselves from heteronormative sex scripts to have more fulfilling queer sex, finding their ideal headspace for sex, better understanding their sexual and sensual desires, increasing ease in talking about sex, and ultimately discovering (and then having!) the kinds of sex that feel worth having for them.

BDSM/Kink

Identity Exploration

Non-monogamy and Polyamory

Kink is incredibly misunderstood in common culture, with modern cinematic depictions of unhealthy power exchange contributing largely to that. Kink dynamics, when built with conscious intentionality and consent, can be extremely loving, trusting, and beautiful bonds. I have sought education from experts in the world of kink that teach other kinksters, and I blend that information with my clinical tools to serve kink interested and kink engaged clients with a unique dual expertise. My perspective celebrates these extraordinary ways of relating, living, loving, and playing! If you are already engaging in kink and want to better understand those ways of being to be more conscious and intentional in your actions, or seek a space to process desires not yet fulfilled, please reach out!

Non-monogamy and Polyamory

Non-monogamy and Polyamory

Non-monogamy and Polyamory

In a world full of monogamist-normative “shoulds”, navigating relationship structures outside of monogamy can be challenging. Building client curiosity about learned relational ways of being to increase their ease of living and loving alternatively is an expertise of mine, and a true therapeutic passion. Whether you are considering non-monogamy for the first time, have bumped into roadblocks that you could use support in moving through, or have other goals related to improving your non-monogamous life, I’d be honored to support your journey!

Relationship Therapy

Non-monogamy and Polyamory

Relationship Therapy

I offer therapy services for relationships of all kinds, with any number of members involved, with a focus on deepening connection. If you are having difficulties in communication, looking to increase intimacy and feelings of connectivity, want to repair after a rupture, or have another specific goal in mind, please reach out to see if we could be a good fit.

Gabbie Wynschenk, LMFT

Gabbie is a queer therapist who lives and loves alternatively herself. They are a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Board Certified Sexologist, and Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional with years of experience working with individuals, relationships, and families navigating a wide-range of topics.


Gabbie’s therapeutic passions include: working with fellow members of the queer community, people of alternative relationship styles and structures (poly/CNM/kink), and individuals or families touched by addiction. They are person-centered, affirming, non-judgmental, and passionate about what they do. In addition to her clinical work, she is equally driven to educate and supervise new providers.

 

As a post-modern systems thinker, Gabbie is constantly thinking about social constructivism and how we as humans exist in a context we all co-create. The rules and roles of our society, or as Gabbie calls them, "the should's", impose norms that don't reflect most of our authentic wants and needs. Many of us carry deep shame & attachment injury simply for existing in a world not built with us in mind. These notions frame much of how Gabbie conceptualizes everything. 


They take a non-pathologizing approach to therapy that leaves plenty of space for the innate capacity humans have to grow and change. They consider intergenerational trauma, family rules and roles, and relational learning over time in conceptualizing every "problem" and "solution". Clients can anticipate a spiritually-informed, person-centered, & an always expansive approach.

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